Our spouses that fall into MLC are not a good choice for a future they seem to be people with a lot of unresolved childhood issues..
They seem ok for some of their adult life, until about the age of 40 ish,,then bam MLC There is nothing we can do to help them No way to change them back since you are not Married to him, you may want to read up on MLC and decide what you want If you decide to stay, it may take 2 -7 years or longer and they are usually not the same after the crises..some will not return even if we wait
I thought Maybe my XH would pass through and get out quickly like he would be different 10 years later, he is still very sick
keep posting Hang in
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
