We are about 2 weeks from the BD, feeling remorseful for my part in all of this I started to reflect on how I meet my WW. We were both married at the time and we reconnected on FB, she was my middle school sweatheat and the second we connected it didn't stop. I knew it was wrong for us to continue since both of us were married and we even talked about not doing anything until we were both divorce, we lived in different states. However that didn't last and we decided to see each other which expedited the divorce from both marriages. Now that this has happened to me I felt I owed my step sons an apology for breaking up their homes, something that I never really considered doing in the past. But now being where i'm at I see how that must of made them feel at the time and made me feel really quilty about it. So I decided to speak to my eldest step son and give him a sincere apology for my actions. He was very appreciative that I went out my way to speak to him and he said that he's not happy with what's going on now and hoped that we can work things out.
Well my WW found out about the conversation and was very unhappy, she said I was trying to wash my hands of my guilt and that I was trying to make her look bad to her son. I wasn't trying to do that but I did validate her reaction and I told her I can see how that can be taken in that context. Did I screw up by talking to him? I really wasn't trying to get him to be upset at his mother, all I wanted was for him to know I was sorry for what I did.
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