Hi Rot, Just checking in on you and I see that you are doing a great job. The patience part is a bitch, isn't it?
Quote: I have also finally realized that my H likes to process things a loooong time before he comes forward with something. So, sometimes a lot is happening but you just have to wait. If you push too early you might get a different, less welcome answer than if you went with H's timetable. Example, I think if I had asked my H to give me a specific date by which he would be moving out, I believe he would be gone by now. The one thing I won't budge on is the one that forces me to develop patience - that his decisions on what he wants must be made without any input from me. I really think the fact that he has to do it alone and that I have been very patient has also kept him from leaving. Patience is our friend (but she's one big pain in the butt).
I love this, In4Ride! Mind if I paste it into my thread? I'll credit you
