Welcome here, sorry you are here but you in great hands, many W and H have affairs through co worker's they will give up everything for there affair. All I can say you must be the adult your 5 kids will need you. I know you only have 1 with her and 4 other from W if you love all these kids the same please take care of them. Your W will use kids as pawns please keep them out of her path, she is already her oldest as her pawn. So be careful get lots of rest and eat well. Protect your finances every penny. And just stay out her way as your W sounds like mine they must be right is the highway or nothing. In there mind's there the victim.
A day at a time
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9