What boundaries can I set in regards to her chatting with OM in the house? I already separated our phone bill which she is paying for herself now. And I also I pay for half her car, do I tell her not to see OM in that car or else?
Taken from the boundaries thread.
Based on reading your story maybe for the short term it would be best to sit back and DO NOTHING.
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Now had I stumbled upon this forum a week ago then I would have calmed myself down and not been so aggressive in trying to get her to confess, instead I went crazy demanding answer which further put up walls for her and refuses to even talk, I threatened to expose this affair at work so she decides to lawyer up and is in that process now. I believe she's working on the D papers at the moment which i'm sure I'll get served soon.
I am not saying not to have some boundaries Maybe you should stop paying for the car but I would consult an attorney first.
As far as she is concerned - I would re-read my first post and do the homework. She is likely lying every time you pursue her, so I stand by the "believe nothing she says and half of what she does."
