Picking up Her MESS #2

[marina7]

Vanilla,
Once again Thank you,I am so grateful for this forum as God knows I am going crazy I honestly don't think we could make this up, as I told my therapist I might sound like a crazy ExW but only God knows this is all true and even more as I myself don't understand what has happen.

Can I ask what do you mean when you say.
"please know this using of the courts and the law is a very terrible way of triangulating"

I honestly accepted that W left me what I realize on my own before finding the forum that when I left W alone, me and kids where mentally ok but when W took s9 out of the blue saying let her live her life and I live mines with d9 and s8 I still gave her time to bring him back I honestly thought she was going to bring him back when I sent an email requesting his return. W didn't she replied with a letter to sign my rights over this is when I knew I had to hire a lawyer unfortunately due to her not even letting him come or call me and basically keeping him away from US.

I pray that the court system will see that W abandon her FAMILY then been verbally abusive with us and then took s9 and seperating sibilings. 3 kids that already are adopted the last 2 had a bad childhood when born that God I got them at a young age but they still remember there biological mom/dad abandon them and now W did the same thing and verbally telling them shr never wanted them. All I can do is show the court system that I just want was best for all 3 kids and if W doesn't ever want to see them I know is mentally better for them.

A day at a time