Oh, thanks for chiming in, Job. That's so interesting about the starting projects to feel better. Maybe that's a thing because he's brainstorming about all kinds of renovation right now.
It definitely felt absolutely pivotal to choose my bathroom.
I also add that, at the night's end...
H: You're welcome. Me: For what? H: For asking you what you wanted to do with the bathroom. For creating the space for you to ask for what you wanted? Me: Um, when I asked you your motivation for asking me that question, you didn't have any. H: Well, I didn't realize until later that something wasn't sitting right and I wanted you to say what you really wanted.
Um, okay. I have a pivotal moment, and it's of course because you were nurturing me towards growth. Uh huh.
BD#1: "marriage is over" 9/14/2016 H in basement 24/7 with EX/OM BD#2: 3/20/2017 I plan to move out "soon" I LRT me: 42, H, 41, EX/OM, 37 D 10, Son 7 M to H = 20 years EX/OM moved in 10 years ago