New LBS - need advice

[apothem]

I'm really struggling with trying to detach. She's constantly in my head throughout the day no matter what I do. I had therapy yesterday and my therapist suggested my wife may have Borderline Personality Disorder.

She informed me that in those relationships the attachment is higher than normal, as well as the affection, emotions, etc. She said that divorces from a spouse with BPD are much harder than normal because of how high they elevate you.