She is treating you with such disrespect. I don’t have advice for you on how to interact, but hope more experienced voices chime in. Ginger is right that you can’t pretend this never happened.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving