Advice on wife's actions

[rd500]

Hi Liamj, fantastic news about the social worker. The truth has a way of comimg out and you did the right thing by recording S.

The thing to remember about W is she will have moments of clarity and then return to the fog. The detachment thats talked about on this site is where you need to be with regards to her words and actions. Keep the focus on you and your kids, concentrate on living your life and enjoying it.

My opinion is that all the WASs have regrets but who really knows to what degree or if they ever return to the person they once were. This is were your GAL comes in keeping busy by moving forward with your life.

Your doing well and dealing with this with strength. Its not easy and remember that life is still there to be enjoyed and lived every day. Focus on the positives and dont dwell on the negatives because even though our own problems feel like the weight of the world , things work out and happiness is there if we choose it.

Take care , Rd