Hi

I don't really know-- may be trial and error for a while
But your L may advise you better

and I agree with the others

make sure he is safe to be with them so much

I never knew until my kids told me their dad almost fell asleep at the wheel
I didn't realize he was using substances to that degree

But one thing for sure
once you gat past this hurdle and D..
you will probably be so much more peaceful and free
hang in


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow