That schedule sounds like way too much hassle to me. I have the kids every other week and every Saturday as xw works Saturdays so that could change. We also wrote in that we can have one night to visit on our off week. Both of us only do this every so often. We change after school on Mondays so it limits seeing xw (normally would anyway).
Not only is that a lot of running around but it has you seeing him more than you need to. IMO not too stable for the kids, or anyone, changing things up so much. I don’t think he’s thinking about anyone but himself w/that schedule, especially since he wants you to take Saturdays. I like having the kids every Saturday but I know some day when I’m ready for a R that it might make things harder but I think of it as bonus time because my time has already been cut in half because of xw’s decisions.
Get what works best for you and the boys! You are the only one that can do what is right for yourself, kids, and h right now.
