Should i leave the house or stay?

[Surv1ve]

Ugh, I am so grossed out by her "joking" about violating your boundaries. Not even remotely funny. She wants to be able to do whatever whenever and however. She knows an R is not about being able to string you like a puppet. She has been very hurtful and if she truly wants to work on the R, she will make amends and not expect you to just respond to her string pulling.

And, OUCH! Honestly, at this far in to BD, if my H had offered me our relationship back (carrot or no carrot, false offer or not), I would have danced through blazing fires if he asked me to. You are freakin' rockin it.