J5K,
I understand what your saying to try to ignore her which I have done the last 4 months and W was quiet and left me alone if I do what she says which is I move on with my life with d9 and s8 and W lives her life with my s9, she is nuts if she thought I was going forget about my son. So now W tell officers I did identity theft with joint cc when we open in 2010. I was advice to get a restraining order on her due to harassment W has accused me of pretty serious accusations which I feel W is dragging my name to the ground. I know W sounds crazy telling officer I was a friend when he ask how did I get her information when I explained to him he said your side sounds more true she didn't give him our background. My concern is W will try to get me lock up which going back this is why when I am outI have someone with me at all time and drop off and pick up I also have someone. GOD knows if W would have just left us alone I would have never contact her but I won't forget about my s9 I will not let her scare me with her threats. I am physically exhausted I don't sleep is always something am just not sure whats next with W. I thought 2018 was going be a new beginning for kids and me but I guess this road is still going.

Yes Jim I never thought how could a mom just leave kids and then be evil to them I just don't get it. I remember my kids crying beging her to stay holding her while W was getting her cloths W shoved D9 like nothing and was yelling at them I remember asking myself wow she is heartless. I knew I had to tell kids to stay out her way. W literally just snap. I hope one day she'll see the damage she has done and caused our kids to have breakdowns and insecurity to the point where in therapy s8 hates himself. This is why my heart is broken I can't take there pain away.

A day at a time


At BD
Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW June,2017
Currently 2018
Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9