Mark, I think you think you are practicing "good DR" but everyone here has been trying to tell you that you aren't. You are practicing "prove that you are still available as plan B." To really DB/DR well, you need to detach, be mysterious, make her wonder, let her see you are moving on with your life, etc. Instead of giving her something to want to return to, you are making yourself look a very unappealing/desperate choice.
