Well an interesting day. I had a meeting with child services. Yesterday I passed a parent at the school that was quite implicit in covering for my STBXW, she said hi, I said F*ck off! So my STBXW reporter it to child services. At that moment I said yes I did say that, took out my phone and played them back the recording of my son telling me how she hurts him and that he doesn’t want to speak to them in case they stop him seeing his Mum. What followed were apologies, but then a statement to say they didn’t think I was telling lies. Erm OK!! So they said they won’t be back in contact with me, they have no further concerns about me but they’ll be sending their Mum on a course to understand how to better parent and not resort to physically handling him. That’ll look good for her as a child minder won’t it!!! I said when this fantasy ends, she’ll realise what she’s done, they said we think she’s already realised that!
I think where she is at the moment is that she knows she’s f*cked up, she knows there is no way back to me so can only try and move forward with the AP. But that’ll never work cause the kids do not want to live with him.
I bumped in to another parent tonight, and it seems she is telling everyone the truth! She isn’t hiding that she has had an affair, but for everyone she tells she loses another friend. I think she’s looking for someone to say oh that’s the right thing to do. Instead they are aligning with me without me even speaking to them.. She asked me to take my kids out with them next Sunday, commented on my weight loss, said she only knew it was me cause of my daughter! I’ve known her for ages. Everyone she shared it with don’t want to know, they all know me and know I’m a nice guy and a great Dad. They know her really well and me much less but still see the terrible thing she has done. I just don’t see how she cannot see how terrible it is!!
