Thank you Bttrfly. I just want this part to end. So much stress.

And Gordie thanks for the encouragement.

I'd love some input. Here is what h proposes for custody split. Please note that he sees them each day after school before I get home around 5:00 ish. So he gets about 10 hours with s14 and about 17 extra hours w/s12 per week. I think I should get an extra night as he has this extra after school time. Also he wants them every Sunday and wants me to have them every Saturday (HELLO REPLAY). And he proposes the following split:

H would like sons Sunday day and night, Tuesday day and night, Thursday day and night and every other Friday day and night (that's 50/50). We live two miles from each other. He wants the dog to remain with the boys wherever they spend the night. (Probably so they can clean up after him--ha ha.) The other days would be spent at my house.

This seems like a lot of jostling. Experienced vets, can you advise? I think he is proposing a very atypical schedule.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced