Aware of this of course BUT do you have any thoughts on the WW getting to a position when being faced with good DR’ing she might feel a certain sense of pride that she can’t go back or be unsure as to the route back to the MR is gone? Good being the lighthouse but not if the bulbs gone…
Have you been reading what sandi posts? WW are all about selfish, entitled, pride. It's entirely possible, even probable, that she will decide that she "can't" go back "because reasons" (like the fact that everyone she's told that you're an absolutely horrible human being, husband, father, and man will ask her why she'd go back and she'll have to tell the truth).
You're still too focused on things other than yourself. Focus on you. That's ALL you have control over, that's ALL you can plan for. You HAVE TO let go or you're going to wear yourself down to nothing!
And if you really do still want her back, then you're going about it the wrong way. All she sees is that you're still a reliable plan B. That's it. And if she comes back, it'll just be exercising plan B. And I PROMISE YOU there will be another plan A in her future.
