I will just tell her that I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me, who doesn't love me, or want to spend time with me so if you don't feel that way and you don't want to try then we are moving forward.
This is exactly what I have in my head when I get to this fork in the road. I think I am a few months away from this due to the separation waiting period, but I believe W is going to bring this up and I can be ready for it.
As you know, I've been following your sitch closely and I feel like I know you like a brother and this turn of events just made me feel really sad yesterday. But the best of this is that you didn't compromise your values and integrity throughout this process. Of course it's not over.
You can DB the best you can but sometimes it's just done and done the day they walk out. But what I take comfort in, and hope you do too, is LH's signature and 'not ever trying to convince someone to be with you'.
Sorry that DB hasn't been able to save your MR, but I am so glad that it saved you.
