Originally Posted By: Ginger1
She basically wants to sweep all the awful stuff she has done under the rug and pretend like it never happened. She's refusing to deal with her stuff.

Yes. Exactly this.

Why do you still treat HER like the prize? SHE should be treating YOU like the prize! Why are you willing to just 'let bygones be bygones'?

Fundamentally....what has changed between now and just before BD? How are you different? How is she different? How is the relationship different?