She basically wants to sweep all the awful stuff she has done under the rug and pretend like it never happened. She's refusing to deal with her stuff.

I am sorry Clyde, but you'll end up exactly where you were if you don't face the issues together. You can't simply rug sweep after that transpired.

I am glad my ex didn't even try to come back. Because I know the only way he would was if he could rug sweep. And at that time in my life, I probably would have let that happen. He doesn't deal with issues. I rug swept at the beginning of our relationship and basically it all came up again, he was not a changed person, but I was so desperate to be with him.

She is pretty darn lucky after all she put you through you let her back in pretty much unconditionally. But really, I don't think that was the best idea.