I am not at all surprised at how he is behaving. No, he's not stupid, but he's hoping that you'll listen to him. Of course, he wants you to fire your lawyer...he wants to have control over everything and he's not happy that your lawyer told him to knock the stuff off.
Gather your proof that you were still together because you will need that info. Let your lawyer know that you can provide witnesses to the fact that you were still together at that time in 2016. In my opinion, your h has been planning his escape for a long time and thinks that he can get away with his stash of money and you aren't smart enough to figure things out.
Gosh, this man is a clone of my xh. BTW, I also agree w/Andrew...the man is hiding something and the gaslighting is his way to make you think you are nuts or to take your focus off of what needs to be done. Don't let him see you sweat!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
