But I ditto Ginger and Cali. She is too broken right now to work on the m. Her comment about OM tells me that, like so many women in MLC, she feels she needs someone there 24/7 to be her wingman. In reality she needs tremendous alone time and a heaping dose of therapy to get herself calibrated. She is quite lost.
Use this time to re-build yourself and to focus on your kids.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
