Sorry J9, just read your last few posts. When I met with the lawyer she set me straight, actually helped me understand the way this all works. She is also a friend and gave me advice on a personal level... she said that she is seeing about a 20% pull back rate, meaning that 20% of all the woman filing pull back the ppw after all is said and done. Then she said that some couples come back later b/c they reconnect and they want a pre-nup.. ugh... its not easy.

So my W and I are filed and still living together, she has been so nice I cannot believe it she must feel relieved that its been filed. I feel better too...best to you J9 you certainly gave us all hope... and its still not over.


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20