My XH was a recovering alcoholic from age 21-40 at 40 he began MLC and soon after he started with prescription drugs and alcohol
Alanon is helpful for the spouse of an alcoholic
many MLCer will turn to drugs and alcohol to ease the pain
ususally I would think their addiction will escalate in mlc as they enter replay
The best you can do is take care of u..get support..try alanon IC read, sleep exercise ect. You will not ever really know if its his alcoholism, or MLC that made him snap..they are both pretty powerful illnesses and both together makes a huge mess either way you will not be able to fix him or this- best to try to fix you- hang in
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