I know its hard we walk on eggshells wanting an answer but it does take time and patience
If a person is sincere in wanting to reconcile, they would be willing to do counseling and let go of their partying, playmates and grow up but for the person truly in MLC I think the force is greater to play in replay for a while..they cant stop themselves time will tell
And your choice to stay and watch to see where it goes
many of us have done just that and with no regrets standing is valuable espeacilly for a time its gives everyone time t adjust grieve and work on us we know we did everything we could to help our spouse and save our M You will get more clues in the days and weeks to come remember to take care of you
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