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I know its hard
we walk on eggshells wanting an answer but it does take time and patience

If a person is sincere in wanting to reconcile, they would be willing to do counseling and let go of their partying, playmates and grow up
but for the person truly in MLC I think the force is greater to play in replay for a while..they cant stop themselves
time will tell

And your choice to stay and watch to see where it goes

many of us have done just that and with no regrets
standing is valuable espeacilly for a time
its gives everyone time t adjust grieve and work on us
we know we did everything we could to help our spouse and save our M
You will get more clues in the days and weeks to come
remember to take care of you


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow