I didn't want to play happy couple entertaining guests in front of our mutual friends.
I understand completely how you feel. It's emotionally exhausting. It would probably have been awkward for your friends, too.
I know you know this, but she's going to be angry a lot of the time because you're not letting her eat her cake, and it's probably going to get worse.
If she's anything like my W, I think a lot of the enthusiasm she's going to show is to convince herself how happy she is. At least that's what I tell myself.
I don't see a lot of passive aggression in your posts, but commenting on the meal.... just don't turn it into a habit...
What kind of flying do you do? Getting your private, instrument, glider, helicopter.... and what do you fly?
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17