New LBS - need advice

[apothem]

Hi Amoafwl,

I feel we did learn a lot about ourselves during our relationship, however I do agree about having a lot of adulthood thrust upon us.

I've been hanging out with friends very regularly, exercising, and looking to take up some new activities. I'm interested in ice skating so I can play in an adult hockey league with a friend of mine.

As far as an affair, I honestly have never considered it as there just haven't been any signs. She was never secretive with me or anything. She did mention to me several times after she dropped the bomb that she has been thinking about this divorce for a few months and was actively searching for apartments. However, she is not in a good enough financial place right now to afford one which is why she's living with her parents.

I truly think something inside of her broke after the comments I made, especially when she has toyed with the idea of having a disorder.