Morbo buddy! Keep on detaching. It's not your problem if she can't let go and realise what she's missing out on.
You're totally right man, I know it!! I've been doing NC and detaching and I only talked very briefly to her over last 2 weeks while collecting kids. We said we'd try this "date" thing, whatever THAT was. Like whatever about the past, which you have to let go of...to actually accuse me of stuff that hasnt even happened yet is a special kind of crazy..haha.
She just melted my f**kin brain, life is too short, its not worth it. I'll keep NC and I'm not going out with her again unless I can see that she's remorseful, really wants to actually sensibly and not just rant at me and ALSO, there is no alcohol involved. I dont see it happening soon and thats totally fine with me, I tried!!
M-45 W-32 D-10 D-8 Together 11 years Married 6 years Separated 6/2017 ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011) EA 11/16 PA Same time?? NC, detachment started 12/11/17 D aug 2019
