Morbo buddy! Keep on detaching. It's not your problem if she can't let go and realise what she's missing out on. Is there a saying in english about eating the cake and having it too? Isn't that what's going on here? Just keep it up! You got this!

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.