I truly tried everything I could, but I know the timeframe has been short.
So maybe now is a good time to try 'patience'.
Im not staying to stop what you are doing. But maybe stop taking such a hardline 'the R is dead' stance and just focus on being the best dad you can for your kids and on getting yourself healthy again. Let W do what shes going to do for a while.
This time you have is a gift, even though you dont see it now. Dont rush through it just to get to the end faster.