I'm currently reading the DB book, on the do what works section (chapter 4). Makes a lot of sense.
To add to my reasons of leaning toward MLC, W was very close to her mum, who brought her up as a single parent. She passed away 5 years ago, followed by her estranged father a year later. She is still grieving and has said how alone she feels. I have tried my best to support her during this time.
In our chats about these feelings, she has said she doesn't want to be labelled as lesbian or bisexual. She said she has had a void for some time and that the OW fills those needs emotionally.
Yesterday she did text that she was having a hard time and that she doesn't need to be rushed by me or (OW).
This is positive is some ways as I believe the A is on fragile ground. I just need to do the right thing in order for her to come back to me.
My suggestion right this minute until you finish reading DB - DO NOTHING
