One year into MLC with wife and this is my story

[Coly23]

Marvin, I am sorry you find yourself here. Your story is very typical of someone in MLC but I must say you sound like a very understanding and patient person! I really wish I was as strong as you so early on in my sitch to be able to detach from my H! I'm still not detached and it will be two years in May since we separated!

I think everyone will agree that she probably still has a way to go but it sounds like you are giving her plenty of space and time. I think I can learn a lot from you! Thanks for posting!