Wife wont admit to affair, its driving me nuts! 2

[Surfer]

Morbo,

Did the same. Stalked (not sure I like the phrase - but I will use it) on Tinder and plenty of fish.

Reality is I never followed up. I think I was probably dipping my toe in to see if I had any 'feelings' for that sort of thing. I didn't clearly. Also, V is right, best meeting someone in a normal way (through friends, bumping into someone and talking like a human).

So where did you get to on the night our/dinner etc thing?

Surfer.