Why do you think it is coming soon? Are you sure it's not more you wanting to "do something"?
Of course I want to do something. I say this because of a few things she has said.
Before I came to this site and was trying to get her to talk, she said it was "too sad to do before Christmas." She also said on another day that "She didn't want to give me false hope." At one point I told her I wasn't giving up on "us." Her reply was simply "we'll see."
The way she was raging yesterday may be all part of the process, but it sure felt as though there was another message behind it.
And as I mentioned, today I see that she has a "friend" on Facebook who is a divorce lawyer. I never noticed that "friend" before.
I want to make sure I'm not caught off guard if the conversation comes and make it go as well as possible.
Maybe Im misreading, but I want you to try to remember that choosing to "Do Nothing" IS doing something.
What Im saying is that you can and should certainly go out and figure out your rights and understand what ramifications a divorce would have on you, your finances, your family, etc.
But you should not do anything involving HER with the information you learn, with the things you saw while snooping, etc.
Be ready, be prepared, keep reading, keep learning and GAL. Those are doing SOMETHING, even if it isnt immediately and directly related to your sitch.
