Rottz, I can understand your frustration and anger. Only you can determine whether or not confronting him is the right thing to do.
One thing that stands out to me though (because I do the same thing), is that you are trying TOO hard. It seems like you are throwing yourself at him and not giving him the chance to build up his sexual feelings for you. Chances are he is feeling pressured, and probably does not really feel like he is being very manly or acceptable to you.
You have talked about backing off in other aspects of your home life, can this be one of those items too? Believe me, I understand WANTING sex and to be wanted by your h, but what can you do instead? Like, continuing the massages w/o having sex in mind, holding hands, spooning, etc.
