wow, Rottz, lots going on. It honestly seems to me like you have made some giant steps in a short time, though....I think the facts that your H is agreeing with many of your statements and willing to read the book are huge reflections of your progress.
Your comment that OW was more easily impressed by your H kind of hit home for me....that must be a part of it for my H as well. Also about setting it up so he would get caught...Sounds so familiar! maybe it's a kind of cry for help. Hang in...Patience is so hard to come by, but you really are making huge strides.
