Don't fret too much your two children are grounded and they go together. They will be open with you if there is nonsense going on. She will be bored with them as they don't mirror her back. The best scenario is she ignores them and they come home with empty tummies and unwashed clothes.
There are two reasons she may be manipulative, money and to wind you up. So happy face on, have a great time kids..........
The more she sees you concerned the more her delight. If you let go by going grey rock then there is no joy for her in having the kids. Despite what she says thone visits will get further and further apart. Let go. You have great kids.
Momma bear, it's lovely to see you put your kids first. Please extreme care of you.
I don't know if you have read the abuse thread?
I will post the link for you.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
