Toxic in-law involvement Throughout these 12 months of the legal battle my MiL had been pressuring my W to get me to drop the case. (For reasons stills unknown to me). My W was constantly feeding back to MiL how I wasn't listening and how annoyed she was with me being unemployed and so determined to fight this. This boiled MiL's blood to very high pressure levels.
I love my MIL, but my FIL is a piece of work. He lives local enough to us that I see him occasionally, post BD and separation. About a week ago, my W invited asked if I wanted to go to dinner with her and the FIL. I know he has been pressuring her to go after me for everything that she can (if we end up D) and she sees him far more often than I see her these days. Anyway, when we were out to dinner, he did not bring up anything about the stitch, surprisingly, but he did try and get me to be his free tech support for several issues he was having on his phone and other issues he wanted advice for in his life etc. It was all I could do to not call him out on being such a horrible person and then still expect that I not only be polite to him, but do favors for him as well. I bit my tongue and just gave him very limited help and basically pointed him elsewhere.
This story likely will not serve much point in helping your stitch, but I wanted to point out that there are crazy people out there that only think of themselves. I feel your pain and am right there with you.
Me: 28 W: 28 No Kids Together: 10 years Married: 3 years ILYBIDLY: 11/2/17 She moved out: 11/15/17
