Yes I did show my IC the letter and she said you were in desperation mode and clearly trying to do anything to sae you M, this is why you do not write a letter when you are distraught.
I spoke to W for 1 hour yeaterday, the first time we talked in a week, I asked her point blank do you feel like I was controlling and if so it would help me moving forward. She said no she just felt like a single mom doing everything with the kids by herself.
She stated the reason she filed when she id was b/c it seemed like I didnt want anything to do with her, that she was trying to say hello to me and I would not give her the time of day. She also said that she does not want anyone to know anything just in case we were to R. Not that she thinks we are but its no ones business what we are going through. I really do not believe her and I think she is just being nice so that the Negotiations go in her favor.
I will post more soon I did not have a lot of time today.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20