Originally Posted By: Joseph9
You guys still live in the same house correct? If so, there should be plenty of opportunity for your W to notice your changes.


Yes, we still live in the same house. As I said before, it seems like she is following the 37 rules with me. To the letter. I honestly don't think she notices when I am there.

When I am trying to do my own thing and I am in the house, should I be visible to her, or is going in to another room ok? Say I want to read, is going to the bedroom fine or should I sit on the couch so she can see I have other interests? If I'm in another room it seems I would be out of sight/out of mind and possibly being anti social. Does that even matter at this point?


M: 25 T:33
Me: 48 W: 49
S24, D21, D18, D15, S8 All living at home while going to school
A confirmed: 12-25-17
EA Definite PA Probable