So for the past few weeks I've really been going hard at GAL.
I've actually been on 7 dates, booked 2 trips of which one will take me half-way around the world.

In the mean time I have realised that my wife has changed her dating profile on various apps, which means that her current "so called stable relationship" is not as stable as it seems, otherwise she wouldn't be on those apps.

I think the acknowledgement of guilt in her e-mail was step one, the anger will subside, and the grief will come when she realises what she has thrown away. It will probably take another 3 to 6 months if not longer. She still seems "certain" in her belief that she has done the right thing to walk away.


Truthbuster.

Married 4.5, Together 6
M: 36, W: 33, no kids
Separation date: 7/8/2017
Bomb dropped: 8/18/2017
Last communication: 1/8/2018 - now nothing
OM confirmed - now ended (?)