I think you are making the right decision on waiting for the 1 year mark. As you said it’s really like you’re Ded anyway. Filing right now isn’t gonna wake her up so if that is what she wants let her do the work.
I signed my D papers yesterday with zero emotion. I’m getting a really good deal as I am keeping the house and paying no alimony and a fair amount of child support. Should be final in 1-3 months. She asked yesterday to stay longer until she finds a house and I told her I would think about it.
I’m in a really good place right now in every area in my life but one. I have actually started to appreciate lately that as far as ex’s go mine might not be to bad. She never did the spewing thing, she still is a great mom and I don’t think there is a real OM. Though obviously if I find out down the road I won’t be shocked right lol!
We got together young had two kids and life got in the way. We stopped growing together and the rest is history.
I feel fairly confident that some day she is going to wish she had tried harder.
Sorry to hijack your thread but I don’t post on my own anymore and you have always had a interest in my story.
