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[bhappy2]

LH, She went and had breakfast with someone from her job,that is what started me feeling insecure. I am here to learn what went wrong on my end as well. I worked perhaps 16 hours a day for a very long time.

I am in IC and the IC was not as harsh as you and AS, but its ok if this is what I need to hear to grow than this is why I am here. I am not perfect, my W has never described me as controlling. Her major complaint was that I was not around enough and just recently said that we have grown appart. We did have a very loving M for a long time, I will not mind read anymore.

The reason many of us are here on this site is to learn not just why our S is leaving but to learn what we did to contribute. The pressures of life have gotten to both of us and she hit her limit. Looking introspectively I realize now that the last few years we really did grow appart and there may not have been OM. And I still think there is not she is just at her limit of what she can take.

I will not leave this site because sometimes the responses are hard to take but the reality is that I need to face the fact that I may have been controlling, you have no idea how good this information is.I will grow, I will learn and I will be a better person.