Newbie In Need Of Guidance

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I was completely unprepared for her to say what she said, so there is know way I would have though to respond the way Accuracy recommended. My W takes crap from no one - except me when she knows she is wrong - but in this case she is so blinded, I don't think she would have cared. She most likely would have called me out on that response.

Now that I'm getting my feet under me a bit here, I hope I will have the "right" thing to say next time.

Rminer: When I read your first post, parts of what you said sounded like they were in my wife's voice. Meeting young and then eventually growing apart. My wife said she feels like a different person than she was when we met, much as it sounds your wife is. Finding your own value and working on your self is the best thing I can recommend now. I keep reminding myself that when I was dating my wife, there was a bit of a challenge there (she did not know everything I was thinking at all times).