J5K, Thank you for your encouraging words and wisdom, I read your sitch Thanks to Sandi she guided me to your story as our storyis very similar. It is a sad story how our W adopted kids and to abandon them again I just don't understand and might never understand. My W is still very cold hearted towards d9 and s8 doesn't even call them they have not spoken to her going on 3 month's. Am not sure how a human person hold so much anger and grudges on children's that didn't choose to be adopted it was us adult to adopt them. Again Jim thank you and may God keep guiding you and your boys.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9