Thank you all for the birthday wishes, and thank you for the link, Job.
Here's the update I really didn't give last post: I had, for a few months, drifted back to a former site but that's over now. There are lots of good things about our relationship, but ultimately wasn't headed where I wanted. Painful, but time to move on. At the moment, I'm not dating anyone.
I've been considering carefully where I want to be in five years, and have decided my current job isn't part of it. I like it, I like the people I work with and work for, and the money is enough. But when I think about how I want to be living, this isn't it. So I have some work to do in that area.
For those of you who have known me a while, you know that I lost my church home in the divorce. I recently found out that the priest is leaving and I decided to give that church a try again. I went last Sunday and felt like I was home. Mr. P and now the duck still go there but that's not really the issue for me, it was the priest who knew my H was cheating on me and decided that I was the one who had to go. Now that he's leaving, I can deal with the rest. I think. I'm excited to give it a try anyway. That's a pretty big deal for me.
I think that covers most of my update. Irma told me I needed to re-do my front landscaping, and that's going to start next week. My kids are good, my GAL is on pointe. I feel like I'm right on the edge of many good things.
Ginger, have you picked a weekend yet? Zues, if you want to join us, you know where to find us.
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