Temp check. She doesn’t want anything thing fuching up her current situation. She wants you still attached to her so you will continue to financially support her do things around the house take care of the kids etc while she’s running around with and texting OM for her excitement and emotional support needs.
Also to top it off she wants to be sure your around as plan B in case it doesn’t work out with OM.
What Accuray posted on your thread is pure gold. The problem is it takes newbies a long time to realize they shouldn’t put up with BS. You most likely will get to a place when you realize you love and value yourself too much to tolerate this blatant disrespect.
By your demeanor in your posts I can tell you will get there sooner than later.
