Part of the MLC dilemma is getting a lot of mixed messages
confusing as it is

the MLCer is confused
maybe in their mind they sway back and forth
they keep us on a hook

continue to do your life
work on you
seek therapy and support
It takes time-patience-pain-grieving
The M as you knew it is over for now-
It may ignite again but it will be different
take care of you-learn to detach let her go
be cordial kind friendly and do your life

You will know what to do when the time comes to do something
right now-accept the limbo state of it all and each day you will be closer to full healing and letting go


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow