Newbie In Need Of Guidance

[rminer]

Thanks, sandi. That helps.


Question for you.

Up until last Sunday when I started trying to fully implement these steps, my wife and I would text a bit during the day. I was usually the one who initiated. When I would send one, I would be to check to see how her day is going, say I'm thinking of her, etc. I usually got short responses, occasionally something longer an more meaningful.

Since Sunday I have stopped that. On Thursday I sent her a text with some information she would need. Nothing personal, just business and it was kept to just one sentence. She was not expecting this text.

She responded with "Ok, thank you." and then followed up with "Thought you lost my number." After a few minutes I replied "You're welcome." and "Nope. Still in my memory."

What was the purpose of "Thought you lost my number?" My first thought was a temp. check, but it was only the fifth day, so I would think it would be way too soon for something like that.

Was she saying she WANTS me to text her, just messing with me or getting a dig in? The comment surprised me a bit.